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I actually needed to read this today. I'm very... uh, passionate and say stupid things I don't mean at the height of an anxiety-driven blow up. And then I spend days explaining to the person I love that it wasn't really me, it was all the trauma responses and automatic defense mechanisms that made me lose my shit on him. But you're right. It's me, all the way down. And maybe owning it is the key to being a functional human.

Anyway. Great post.

You're making me feel bad about not writing more.

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